Date: Fri, 19 Aug 2005 05:56:15 +1000 (EST)
From: "Julian Anderson" tinknjules@yahoo.com.au
Subject: Re: Thoughts
To: xxxxx
Hi xxxxx
I don't know if I got any rest.I doped myself up so much that I honestly can't tell if I dozed or not.I might have.I sat up all night last night with her so I know I was tired.
You mustn't think you let her down. I told her the same thing, because I honestly believed it.I should have paid more attention to the look in her eyes and maybe I wouldn't have been so quick to dismiss it as just a dream.
But please don't think you blew it.She loved you an awful lot and that would really tear her up if she thinks you think that.
I just wish I could have had some last words from her. She had all these tubes and couldn't speak.I knew she wanted Max because she kept pointing to her wedding ring. I keep thinking maybe I shouldn't have told her. Maybe my doing that killed her, even though the doctors said it was internal injuries.
Hearing a person sob with those tubes is gut wrenching and I can still hear it.
You know, all she wanted was someone to be with her in the end, and I had to go and get a damn coffee. If anyone let her down, it was me. She looked at peace when I sat with her, and all of the equipment was gone.
Yes thanks if I need help I'll ask, but I know what to do, and I know she didn't want a lot of fuss and bother. I'll take them home next week as planned. We won't miss our flight.I'm just glad it's a private plane.
I hope Liv isn't mad that I've turned off my mobile phone.I don't want to talk to anyone--I can't speak.I hope she understands.
I'm going to go and take some more sleeping pills and try and get through the night in this house.
Try and get some rest yourself tonight, ok? She's probably watching and tut-tutting if you're not.
Julian
This is the email I got right after she had Max and Nikki run down........
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Following from: http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2007/04/22/symptoms-of-a-disturbed-personality/
Symptoms of a disturbed personality
Façade of normalcy
If nothing was done about someone who was so obviously disturbed, what hope is there that something will be done about psychopaths?
Many psychopaths appear to be charming, entertaining, productive members of society. They often hold responsible jobs—doctors, clergy, soldiers, corporate executives. They put up a façade of normalcy.
But they are rotten at the core. They have no heart, no conscience and no remorse. They merrily destroy the lives of others through emotional and financial devastation.
Sometimes psychopaths are physically violent. Generally it is a hidden violence—abuse of intimate partners and children. But even when they become serial killers, psychopaths still appear to be normal. Dennis Rader, the BTK killer, had just been elected president of his church council before he was arrested in 2005.
Symptoms of a psychopath
So what can we do?
The only way to protect ourselves from psychopaths is this: Know they are out there, know the symptoms, and if you spot them, get away.
These are the key symptoms of a psychopath, according to Dr. Robert Hare:
• Glib and superficial
• Egocentric and grandiose
• Lack of remorse or guilt
• Lack of empathy
• Deceitful and manipulative
• Shallow emotions
• Impulsive
• Poor behavior controls
• Need for excitement
• Lack of responsibility
• Early behavior problems
• Adult antisocial behavior
There are millions of psychopaths living freely among us. They can be found in all segments of society—rich, poor, male, female, all races, all communities. They are the most destructive personalities of the human race.
The only way to protect ourselves from them is to keep our eyes open.
I wonder if she has ripped off Centrelink, the Australian Social Security System. She would be cunning enough to say she had seperated from her husband and was milking the system getting the Sole Parent pension. Where did she get so much money to do what she did?? Maybe milking others bank accounts??
I am sure she is ripping off someone or some organization. Maybe fixing the books of this supposed dance studio she worked for, that I would bet on. She spent hundreds, I mean hundreds on Joanna Lumley stuff. It will all catch up with her.
She must have talked someone into letting her do the books because from what I recall she had absolutely no experience in that field at all. She told me that she had always worked as a Nanny. Can you imagine her looking after your children!! Holy shit!
Lissa is on Facebook. She goes under the name Mischief's Mum Daly.
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